Tuesday, October 04, 2005

The Nuptuality of Catholicism

As some of my vast readership knows, I started this blog chiefly to develop my thoughts on John Paul the Great's "theology of the body." One of my first major entries consisted of a partial draft of an article I had planned with a view to setting TOB in the larger context of those distinctively Catholic doctrines to which non-Catholic Christians generally object the most. The value of doing that would be to exhibit the genius of Catholicism in terms of the "analogy of faith," and thus render the Faith more credible by its beauty to those who generally see it as an archaic and peculiar amalgam. But I got stuck because I felt I had to study TOB more closely in order to clarify for myself the pivotal point I had only intuited. Thanks to the Holy Spirit, however, I am stuck no longer. On this feast of St. Francis of Assisi, who was unusually sensitive to the beauty of creation, it seems especially appropriate to adumbrate where I'm headed and thus, I hope, elicit helpful feedback.

In her helpful comments on my post of Sunday, October 2, dilexitprior wrote as follows:

The mystery of nuptiality rests on three points: otherness, self-gift into communion, and the fruitfulness of communion. That mystery is perfectly expressed in the Eucharist as the Body and Blood of Christ in relation to the Trinity. In the Eucharist, Christ satisfies our hungering for a return to the nuptial union we had “in the beginning.” According to Pope John Paul II, "Nuputiality manifests the holy reality of the donation of which the first pages of Genesis speaks" (Love and Responsibility). God knows that we long to enter into communion with Him, to enter into the nuptiality of the Trinity, and allows us to taste and see this nuptial union in the Eucharist.

As a groom proposes nuptial union to His bride, so too does Christ propose to us, in the Eucharist, to enter into nuptial union with Him. As in authentic love we are enabled to truly perceive the meaning of the personhood of the other; if we approach the Eucharist with authentic love we see the Truth of Christ. So when I speak of nuptiality in the Eucharist, I am referring first to the mystery of the relationship withing the Trinity: just as in the Trinity the Son is generated by the Father's love but not without Christ's reception of the gift, the same structure is present, or should be present, in human marriage; and secondly to Christ's espousal to the Church. In looking to the life of Christ through His body in the Eucharist, within the context of the Theology of the Body, we are reunited with the meaning of the nuptial union which we rejected with the Fall and which has been redeemed for us in Christ. Ultimately, rediscovering the nuptial meaning of the body through marriage and in the Eucharist is in fact rediscovering the whole mission of Christ and the whole reality of creation and redemption.

Nice. God the Son wants to marry us and hence gives himself to his Bride, the Church, in the Eucharist. That is why marriage between ordinary men and women in the Church is a sacrament even as the Eucharist. Marriage is a sign and instrument of Christ's communion with his people. Priests, who confect the Eucharist, emulate that model by giving themselves to the Church as alteri Christi. Thus the sacrament of unity, celebrated by all the Church's members, is the model for the sacraments of mission: matrimony and holy orders. And the Church in general, laity and hierarchy, is the Bride who delights in her husband because he is her hero: the One who has rescued her at enormous cost from evil and darkness.

Though quite Pauline, that theme is curiously overlooked outside the context of the theology of the body, itself an enthusiasm that few Catholics seem to share despite John Paul the Great's brilliant exposition of it. (That's probably because he used it to support the teaching of Humanae Vitae, an encyclical no more popular today than when first issued in 1968.) What seems to be even more widely overlooked, however, is the ecclesiological point: the very structure of the Church herself iterates the same model. Here's where the words of my earlier post are pertinent:

What the late, great Hans urs von Balthasar called the “Marian” and the “Petrine” charisms within the Church form a spiritual polarity that symbolically recapitulates the intimate relationship between Christ and the Church and thus serves, sacramentally, to cement her unity with him. The Marian charism of receptivity to God, submissive fidelity to Jesus Christ, and fruitfulness in bearing him into the world is fully shared by every member of the faithful, from the bottom to the top; it just is the superordinate, multi-layered gift of grace empowering the Church to be the Bride of Christ and thus, by the power of the Holy Spirit, bear his children into the world. The Petrine charism of teaching and governing authority, invested primarily in bishops and derivatively in priests and deacons, exists to facilitate and serve the Marian by efficaciously signifying Christ as the self-immolating Bridegroom and Head of the Church. Hence the hierarchical nature of the Church—her hieros arché or “sacred order”—is an unpagan kind of hieros gamos, a sacred marriage. Just as Jesus is the male Bridegroom of the Church, all the faithful together as his Bride are female.

That is the sacramental sign by which the ecclesia, the assembly of the faithful, is effectively related as collectivity to her Lord as he intended. Extending that truth to the horizon is the teaching of Lumen Gentium: "By her relationship with Christ, the Church is a kind of sacrament of intimate union with God and of the unity of all mankind, that is, she is a sign and an instrument of such union and unity." As the sacrament of such union, the Church is also the sacrament of salvation (I prefer the Eastern term theosis) for humanity.

As "one body" with her Head in the way spouses are one body with each other, the Church "is" Christ. Hence, the sacrament of marriage and the sacrament of the Church are signs and instruments of each other, each being in turn signs and instruments of Christ's loving union with humanity.

That's why sex, rightly understood and engaged in, is so important. It is important not in spite of the holy but as a means of holiness: within marriage, open to procreation. Outside that context, it is a mockery of the human vocation, a descent into bestiality at best and idolatry at worst. That's why the Devil loves sexual sin—the more perverse the better. That's why it's so important not only to avoid such sin but to do so with an adequate understanding of why. And that's why people who love their sexual sins generally hate the Church.

I'm convinced that that is not primarily because the Church "officially" tells them that what they do is wrong. What's operative here is far more basic: a natural law of action and reaction. When darkened and trampled, the innate human conscience snaps back with equal force, so that one can continue to darken and trample it only by ever-greater denial and sin. One of my favorite contemporary authors calls that "the revenge of conscience." The revenge of conscience is to cause those who ignore it to become ever worse. That is why things in general seem to be getting worse very quickly now.

I'd better get that article out soon.

9 comments:

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  2. For insight on "Love and Responsibility" by Karol Wojtyla check out my blog. I just wrote a book review of the text for a Moral Theology class I'm taking this semester and I posted some excerpts from my essay on my blog.

    Happy Canadian Thanksgiving!

    www.dilexitprior.blogspot.com

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  3. Hi Mike
    I am going to try again:
    "And the Church in general, laity and hierarchy, is the Bride who delights in her husband because he is her hero: the One who has rescued her at enormous cost from evil and darkness."

    Does this mean that the husband is the wife's hero, that he rescues her at enormous cost from evil and darkness, or is this only applicable to the Church and Christ?


    "Though quite Pauline, that theme is curiously overlooked outside the context of the theology of the body, itself an enthusiasm that few Catholics seem to share despite John Paul the Great's brilliant exposition of it."

    How and why is this Pauline?

    "It is important not in spite of the holy but as a means of holiness: within marriage, open to procreation."
    Why open to procreation?

    Thank you for your hard work.
    Regards
    Olympiada

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  4. Here are some quick responses to your questions.

    1) Just as the wife delights in the husband, so too the husband delights in the wife.

    2) This is "quite pauline" because Paul often uses the bride and bridegroom analogy in his letters to describe the relationship between Christ and His Church.

    3)Marriage must be open to procreation because in order for love in marriage to be authentic the spouses must share in the pursuit of a common good or purpose. In marriage, that good is the union of the man and wife and the fruitfulness of their marriage, most commonly manifested in children. The nature of the vocation to marriage is that of forming a domestic church (a family). While not all couples conceive and bear children, and these couples can still have a fruitful marriage, the most common manifestation of fruitfulness in marriage is children.

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  5. Dil
    So then are you saying that if a woman is not interested in reproducing she should not marry? What about in the case of a single mother who had to divorce. Are you saying that she also has to be open to procreating again?
    Regards
    Oly

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  6. Actually I AM saying that a woman that is not interested in reproducing should not marry. In fact, she cannot validly get married in the Church, and if she was "married" it would be invalid and grounds for an annulment.

    The case of a single mother who has had a divorce is different. First of all, if her original marriage was valid, than she should not be participating in sexual relations with anyone but her spouse, that would be considered adultery. People are free to separate, and even pursue a legal divorce, for valid reasons (abuse, neglect, etc...) but they are still considered married to their original spouse in the eyes of the Church and any further sexual relations is considered adultery and is a grave matter in the eyes of the Church. Therefore, assuming the original marriage was valid, a divorced woman should in fact not be seeking to procreate again with someone different.

    This being said, if the original marriage was invalid, if the woman was wanting to marry someone else, they would have to be open to having children. This is the key. Whenever entering into marriage the couple must both be open to the gift of children.

    It needs to be pointed out though that not every family will have a dozen children, nor is it wise. Some families may have one, some may have a few, some may have none, and that is alright, so long as the couples are truly open to the gift of children. There is something the Church teaches called "responsible parenting." That means that while a couple must be open to the gift of children and it is a grave sin to do anything deliberate to counter contraception in the act of sexual relations, spouses should consciously consider their context and their ability to care for further children, the health of the mother, etc... This is where natural family planning comes into play. Keep in mind that natural family planning is not a contraceptive because it does not interrupt or interfere with the actual marital embrace, but rather is based on a knowledge and understanding of the cycle God has given the woman. Natural Family Planning requires discipline, self-restraint and sacrifice. Furthermore, it is always open to the potentiality of conception.

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  7. Dil
    I taught NFP to my former priest's daughter and my former housemate. My husband is an altar boy gone bad. My mom fell away from the Catholic church. As I mentioned I am Orthodox.
    I have known about my fertility signals since I was a teenager. I chose the wrong husband plain and simple. He has a contraceptive mentality he is not willing to change. I never had a contraceptive mentality, although I adopted one. He abused me the whole marriage and was enable by the former priest in doing so. It is truly awful. He had no theology of the body. That is a prime requirement for the next husband, a theology of the body and a commitment to natural family planning. End of story.

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  8. Oly:

    I'm delighted to hear that one of your requirements for your next husband will be that he subscribe to the theology of the body and be willing to do his utmost to practice what it entails. If more women would take that stance, more men would listen up.

    I think Kristina's response to you was quite sound, and you seem to have reacted accordingly.

    Best,
    Mike

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  9. Mike
    Next husband?! I am tweaked in the head. I have no idea what stance to take in regards to the 'next husband'. Heck I aint even divorced yet, my husband does not want divorce, my affections are all mixed up. It's a big fat stinking mess, I tell you, a horrid one.
    I dont even know if I believe in marriage any more and yet I can not commit to celibacy because I have a 5 year old daughter. My daughter wants a baby sister! But the kind of men I am attracted to are crooks and drunks! Corrupt!
    LOL.
    Regards
    Oly

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